When was the last time you read a title like that? Then again, if you live in New York, you probably *know* someone who HAS a similar fetish. But it’s all new to me, and that’s why I love striking up conversations with random strangers cuz I never know what’s going to come out. Tonight’s random conversation was with a dom in the New York BDSM “scene.” He teaches classes at Columbia on the subject and holds “play parties” at various locations in New York.

He’s been in the BDSM community for nearly 20 years, and he’s seen it all. So I wondered what – if anything – shocked him – crossed his line. Continue reading →